Loving relationships are good for a couple’s mental and physical health. In Western culture, more than 90% of people marry by age 50. When healthy relationships blossom, they also benefit others around the loving couple, such as children, extended family members, and even friends; believe it or not.
However, about 40-50% of married couples in the United States divorce, suggesting that breakups (although not as well measured) may be just as rough as divorce. And the divorce and separation rates for subsequent relationships are even higher.
Why Do Couples Separate? Healthy Relationships and the Language of Love
So what’s going on here? In some cases, couples may naturally grow apart. That’s okay, but there must be other factors at play to explain why separation rates are so high. According to a study published by the National Institute of Health, reasons for divorce/separation boil down to a few factors. The main reason, cited in 75% of the cases, was a lack of commitment. Next, found in 60% of report, was infidelity. Third, and found in 68% of sample relationships was excessive conflict and arguing. Passion that may have once existed, simply fizzled out. So, given the factors that work against healthy and stable relationships, how can couples maintain or rekindle their passion? We have a few suggestions for you.Rekindling Relationships Healthy Relationships and the Language of Love
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Learn your partner’s love language
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Quality Time
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Giving Gifts
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Acts of Service
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Physical Touch