About Finding Erotica

We are a community designed to promote and facilitate discussions around topics related to romance and mature relationships. Since our books, website and community are entitled Finding Erotica, it is important to clarify our understanding of the term erotica. Erotica and erotic romance are not porn. Where porn’s singular focus is on gratuitous sexual acts performed by objectified participants, erotica focuses on the lives and stories of complex characters who engage in intimacy, romance and sex. Similarly, we want our community to reflect the complexity that defines, and challenges, so many mature relationships. Our community is a nonjudgmental safe space where members are encouraged ask questions, share experiences, reveal fears, and discuss a wide range of issues that lie at the heart of most relationships.