by Finding Erotica | Jun 5, 2019 | BDSM, Sexual Taboos
We shared a chance encounter. It was lunch time. I sought a place to sit and spotted an empty chair at her table. She stood behind it and leaned forward. Her long sculpted dark brown legs extended down from a green and blue plaid mini-skirt. I couldn’t see her...
by Finding Erotica | Jun 5, 2019 | Sexual Taboos
There are certain things we learn that we’re just not supposed to do, most of them for good reason. Things like don’t have sex with your best friend’s ex or leave underage girls alone even if you are a hedge fund billionaire and no matter how lonely you might be in...
by Finding Erotica | Jun 5, 2019 | Sexual Healing, The Black Woman
The Backbone of Many The backbone of many; carried on the backs of few is a phrase I hear when I speak with other dark women of color. Ultimately, we are the ones in the background encouraging, pushing, pulling, building up, lifting up, helping others realize their...
by Finding Erotica | Jun 4, 2019 | Cancer, Post Illness/Post Injury, Sexual Healing
The Kindness of many has shaped my life in positive ways. The malice of some has shaped it in negative ways. Soon after discovering I had prostate cancer, a number of friends reached out to me. I don’t know how they knew to do so. When I asked, their answers were...
by Finding Erotica | Jun 2, 2019 | Cancer, Post Illness/Post Injury, Sexual Healing
The phone number wasn’t familiar. I almost didn’t answer the call. At the last minute, I decided to see who was on the other end. It was an assistant from my urologist’s office. “Your test results are in and the doctor would like to see you.” Silently my whole body...
